Lesson 6 – Impact and responsibility

I was very blessed in my career to work for a long time with two amazing coaches; Madeline and Linford. I often reflect on how our work together has shaped my coaching today.

Madeline instilled an un-wavering sense of belief in my ability and taught me how to be resilient. Linford was/is the best mentor anyone could ask for, with a big heart and terrible dad jokes.

It is this that reminds me everyday of my responsibility as a coach. The huge impact Mads and L had, remains with me today. So, what will my impact be with the athletes I have coached along the way?

It’s a big responsibility isn’t it?

These athletes are trusting you with their careers; asking for our guidance, support, mentorship, advice and encouragement. These relationships build over time and rely on authenticity, honesty and trust.

But you can’t please everyone. Not every coach can help every athlete. Sometimes the personalities just don’t fit, and that’s ok. Sometimes the best way to help, is to get out the way.